I Don’t Need your Reasons, Don’t Tell Me Cuz It Hurts

90s look - black dress with white t-shirt, camel coat and blue puma sneakers - belt bag and pearl hair clips

What I’m Wearing…

* Camel coat by SMYTHE
* Vintage dress from the ’90s (my own and a fave!) from Contempo Casuals – seen here in 2014 and here in 2013 and here in 2011 and so many more times.
* DIY Pearl Neck T-shirt
* Belt bag by Hipsters for Sisters … also seen here in 2013
* Vintage Sunglasses
* DIY Pearl Hair Clips
* Blue Puma sneakers

* Title: No Doubt – Don’t Speak

Where do I start?

My house sold in a week and now we’re in escrow as of last Friday, April 5th. I had the inspection yesterday morning and one more coming next Monday and I guess if all goes well, escrow will go as it should and I will be moving out the first week of June… and yet another insanely life-altering event falls on my birthday. crazy.

Dogwood Tavern celebrated its one year birthday last Saturday night with a super fun Totally 80s party and I may have had one too many cocktails… which always lowers my immune system and so I’ve also been fighting a cold ever since, which doesn’t help my moodiness -so I’ve been up and down, happy and sad… and angry. This entire house situation just doesn’t seem fair, but I guess fair is relative. I’m sure my ex thinks it’s beyond fair, but he’s an evil douchebag. so there’s that.

Anyway, I’ve been emotional to say the least, having a difficult time letting go of it all, but there’s nothing like finding a lump in your breast to give you a little perspective, eh?

So yeah, last night, I found a lump… and suddenly the house didn’t matter anymore.

nothing did.

Not sure why, but every time I grab my camel coat lately, I also grab these blue Puma’s – I dunno why but I like the two colors together, I suppose. I guess it seems like an odd choice, but I’m loving it lately. See them together here too with plaid pants.

new modern 90s look

Happy Friday Lovecats!

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LA native & lifestyle blogger Maegan Tintari writes daily at ...love Maegan.com sharing beauty & style secrets, including fashion DIYs, how-to nail art manicures, hair tutorials, recipes & home decorating ideas, as well as a look into her personal life, her journey & battle with infertility & recent relocation to the mountains by a lake in search of a better life with her adorable French Bulldog brothers, Trevor and Randy.


  • Anni

    April 12, 2019 |

    Dear Maegan,
    this whole house-story of yours really breaks my heart and I don’t even know you in person.
    I would really like to give you a tight hug.
    And concerning the lump – that’s scary but I had several the last few years (since I turnded 40) and it was just something like a swollen glant (I don’t know the english word for it but I think you will know what I mean) and they dissappeard after a few weeks. So don’t freak out and make an appointment with your doctor as soon as possible. I’m keeping my fingers crossed!

  • Maegan Tintari

    April 13, 2019 |

    Thank you 🙂 I have an appointment next week to see the doctor and a mammogram. I’m hoping it’s just a swollen gland. xoxo

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